Domestic Abuse Awareness Month: Beyond October, The Conversation Must Continue

A spotlight blog from RLB Trainer and Consultant- the esteemed Tina Pokuaah who is committed to raising awareness about domestic abuse in our communities and work spaces. For more information on Tina and her incredible expertise, please see our Meet the Team section.

Appreciation for campaigns and their ability to raise awareness on a grand scale is important. However, it sometimes feels like a rollercoaster of highs and lows, with awareness surging and fading with each headline. Domestic abuse awareness month is no different, and as we come to the end of it, we hope to encourage you to keep the conversation going, every day, every month, every year.

While Domestic Abuse Awareness Month is an essential initiative, considering how far we've come to even being able to define it, let alone challenging the idea that it is a matter of the home, it's unfortunate that domestic abuse refuses to adhere to any calendar. Thus, the fight against this pervasive issue must persist, for we know it affects countless individuals. Recent statistics indicate that, as of March 2022, 2.4 million adults aged 16 and over experienced domestic abuse in the UK (1.7 million women and 699,000 men), further demonstrating its impact extends far beyond the confines of October.

Therefore, maintaining the conversation throughout the year is paramount. It's our way of offering support and resources unceasingly, breaking the silence that so often engulfs victims and survivors and holding perpetrators accountable. Domestic abuse endures even when it's not in the headlines. Brave survivors are quietly fighting to overcome their ordeals in a world often hesitant to discuss their experiences. Sustaining an open dialogue allows us to extend support, empathy, and resources, ensuring survivors are not left to endure their experiences in isolation.

Keeping the conversation going acknowledges the significant progress made in domestic abuse awareness, from increased media coverage to legislative changes. The Domestic Abuse Act of 2021, for example, is still highly celebrated but still awaits the full implementation of its strategies. Continuous dialogue and advocacy are vital to propel policy changes and enhance legal protections for survivors. This ongoing commitment ensures that domestic abuse remains a priority for lawmakers and society at large, recognising that the fight must persist as we know it affects countless individuals.

By keeping the conversation alive, we ensure that people remain informed about the signs, risks, and available resources, thereby increasing the chances of early intervention. This is not just for professionals, but communities, children, and young people need to be equipped and empowered. It is a collective responsibility. Perpetually discussing this issue fosters a culture of empathy, support, and solidarity, which is vital to break the cycle of abuse. It also serves to challenge harmful stigmas and stereotypes surrounding domestic abuse, promoting an environment where victims are believed, not blamed, creating a safe space for disclosure and healing.

It is in everyone's interest to take action to prevent or reduce the likelihood of domestic abuse. Keep the conversation going but also:

Get Educated: Familiarise yourself with the signs and consequences of abuse.

Raise Awareness: Share information about abuse with your friends, family, colleagues, or neighbours.

Identify Patterns of Abuse: Be vigilant and recognise behaviour that may lead to abuse.

Encourage Sharing Concerns: If you suspect someone is a victim, support them in sharing their concerns with trusted family and friends.

Keep in mind that many victims may not come forward during Domestic Abuse Awareness Month. Sustaining the conversation offers a continuous platform for survivors to seek help and report, potentially saving lives.